“I’m sending you this letter again. Last time I left without saying anything about it but if you show another irresponsible attitude this time, you better be prepared to die. Even during the event, you only invited people like you, not a single person looked marriage material.
Hypocrite, Conman!
The email was full of all kinds of cursing and swearing words. I probably heard all the cursing words that I would hear in my entire life at once. She ended her email with asking 5 hundred thousand dollars for her emotional distress. All the couple managers who had talked to her even once agreed on how bad she is.
“I’ve never seen a woman like that before. How can she keep talking about herself only...”
“It is such a twist. How can someone so pretty spit out such ugly words?”
She was really beautiful. Anyone’s heart would flutter when they first saw her. However, the moment she opened her mouth, the illusion was shattered. She would swear at anyone without any regard for others. If she didn’t like someone she was introduced to, she would express her feelings to them so bluntly, and she would mercilessly swear at her couple managers.
There were so many complaints about this woman from men.
“What kind of woman is that? I don’t like her either. She has such a filthy mouth. She sucks!
“She looked at me with a disgust and why should I be treated like that?”
This type of situation was repeated so no one wanted to set up a date for her and in fact tried to avoid her. She was warned several times about her behavior and her membership was suspended at times. Usually, in these cases, we will terminate her membership however, thanks to her mother who was very apologetic whenever her daughter acted up, we didn’t pull the plug. I wondered how a daughter like that could come from a mother who is so sweet.
“There’s no place else that would accept my daughter. I know my daughter is not an easy person to get along with but please for the sake of me, give her one more chance."
So, I suggested that she can attend a group meeting as her last chance thinking that by exposing herself to many men, someone will be interested in her. However, it didn’t turn out the way I predicted. Even after meeting tens of men, no one was interested in her. Her sharp tongue stood out more since she had such pretty face. After this group meeting, she was so upset that she sent that horrible email to me. Her email made me laugh at first since it was so absurd but made me upset a little as well.
Then I thought about it more and realized that I can’t just be upset about this, and someone has to help her out with her problem. I felt a little bit of pity for her as well. Everyone around her knew that she had a problem, but she was the only one who didn’t know about herself. Honestly, her condition was pathological.
Usually, three types of men fit in with her type of person. A man who is indifferent and insensitive, a man who has a unique sexual preference and gets excited hearing mean stuffs, or a man who has more power and energy to overwhelm her.
After much deliberation, I found a man to introduce to her. He is a man with a hasty and somewhat strong personality. Relationships between men and women are relative. Even if there were problems with one person, if they met someone else, the relationship could be completely different. If this man and a bad-tempered lady met, they would either end up fighting or one of them would be overpowered.
The key was to persuade her, who was so upset with everything. So, I asked her mother to help. Her mother must have been desperate because she thought it was her daughter’s last chance, and I was betting on 1% of the odds.
If things don’t go well this time, she may ask for 1 or 2 million dollars for compensation. And for several days, I was anxiously waiting to hear from her. Usually, if things don’t go well, she would have shot some f bombs to me, but I haven’t heard back from her for a week then a month. Isn’t this exactly what the saying ‘no news is good news’ means?
I have not heard from her since then.
I don’t know who was subdued between the two, but in any case, I can only assume that the problematic man and woman found their match. Just like this, every Jack has a jill. If you haven’t found someone yet, maybe it’s because you are looking for someone who doesn’t match well with you.
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