There are some people that date many people at the same time, especially when they are not so certain about anyone yet. By doing so, they will know better about who the right person for them is. However, this may make things more complicated.
Miss K, in her early 30s, has been dating a man who is 3 years older than her for several months. She says he is a warm-hearted person, checks on her often, and makes her feel loved. He is nearly perfect except she is not physically attracted to him. So, he feels more like a close friend to her rather than a boyfriend. She likes him for his kind personality and ability.
Meanwhile, she met a guy who is a friend of her close coworker. One day, she was having dinner with her coworker and the guy happened to join them coincidentally. After then, since his work is nearby, she ran into him here and there then they got closer.
She got closer to him since she was physically attracted to him. He was close to her ideal type however, he was very self-centered, rather cold yet she can’t stop herself begin attracted to him.
She feels bad betraying her devoted and kind boyfriend, yet she can't stop herself from falling for the other guy. She knows that this new guy is not treating her that nicely, yet she can’t stop her heart from falling for him.
Nonetheless, she doesn’t want to break up with her boyfriend either and she feels really bad about herself being this way.
Her reasoning is with the good guy, but her heart is with the bad guy.
Some research results show that it is more instinctive to be attracted to bad guys. Whether it is instinct or reason, now is the time for a decision.
You can’t decide based on whether a guy is good or bad. You need to go for a guy who will make the best lifelong partner to you. Someone who doesn’t have a crooked mind, someone who smiles a lot with a healthy mind, someone who is respectful will make a good spouse.
Affection may cool down however, respect for someone lasts longer.
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